Monday, October 24, 2016

Candle Magic Superstitions




I enjoy candle magic.  I find it very straight forward and very versatile. I don't hold much with certain superstitions attached to candle magic, however. I've always been of the opinion that the intent and level of respect is what counts. After all, if I blow the candle out, am I "blowing away" and wasting the energy, or am I sending the energy off to do my will upon my breath? Is it more rude to put out the candle with the air element (blowing it out) than it is with the earth element (using a snuffer)? Wouldn't snuffing (earth element) be like grounding, therefore dissipating the energy? See, I can create superstitions, too! :D

In terms of candle health, it's best to re-wax the wick after putting out the candle by dipping the wick into the pool of melted wax after you put it out, so that could be the origin of the superstition that the fire element and/or the spirits will be offended if you blow out the candle.  If the wick is not re-waxed, then it will have no protection from any moisture that gets on the wick, and an even slightly damp wick will have difficulty being re-lit. Even heavy humidity in the air can make a wick difficult to light.

Of course, using a snuffer doesn't automatically re-wax the wick, either. Some people just smash the snuffer down onto the candle, and that can sometimes re-wax it a little, but not much and not always. Others hold the snuffer just above the flame without it touching the wax so that it burns up the oxygen under the bell and goes out, basically suffocating the flame, which to me is the same as blowing it out. Also, using a snuffer in this way creates as much or more smoke as blowing it out.

My favorite candles to use are votive candles in glass votive holders. Once the candle gets going, the wax drips into the sides, creating a mini jar candle in a way. This helps the candle last longer. When I want to put it out, I'll just take a snuffer and use the handle end, or the handle end of a spoon or fork, and put out the candle by dipping the wick straight into the melted wax. This re-waxes the wick and also keeps the candle from smoking, which I tend to be allergic to anyway. Then, I'll use the handle to make sure the wick is standing upright again so it'll dry upright and be easier to light next time. There are also specialty tools for this that you can get from some candle shops, though any long, heavy gauge wire with the last 1/2 inch bent at a 90 degree angle works just as well.

All that is harder to do with taper candles unless they are of a large diameter, but you can still kind of do it by mashing the wick down onto the top of the candle, especially once it has burned down to the wider section, or else if it's the same diameter the whole length, like the stick candles we've nicknamed "witch sticks" that you can get from most new age shops and online occult supply stores
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Secret Teachings


Very often, the seeker of spirituality is lured in by promises of secret knowledge, secret power.  Seekers come from all walks of life, but there are commonalities.  The empty, hollow feeling; the need for connection and meaning; the desire to know that there is more to life; the need for everlasting peace; the desire to control the direction of their lives; and upon the cold, wine-dark sea, they will grasp at whatever driftwood seems to promise those things to them.

Some seekers believe they have found what they were seeking after.  They gather knowledge.  They gather rituals.  They gather secret names, motions, and symbols.  Some begin to feel a bit special for all of this; Indeed, not many wouldn't.  As special beings, is it not up to them, therefore, to make sure the "lineage stays pure"?  Is it not up to them to make sure that those to whom they pass on this hard-won knowledge (i.e. usually the price of a few books of new age and/or acedemic provenance) are worthy of such?  So, make sure you stroke their egos.  Make sure you pay your dues, or your seminar fees, or your initiation fees, or your church tithes.  If you don't...maybe you'll find that you by chance aren't worthy of the secrets, of the rituals, the initiations, names and symbols.  You poor, spiritually undeveloped soul, you.  Maybe by next incarnation you'll have learned enough to be ready for the SECRETS....

It should be apparent from what I've written above that I most certainly believe that the knowledge should be available to all, and certainly not suppressed and yet, I suppose I'm in the camp that some would call "exclusionary" or even "elitist", but by observation, not by choice, decision, or mere opinion.  If everyone were meant to do it, it would work for everyone, but it doesn't.  How many people pick up some aspect of the occult, any aspect, and stick with it?  How many does it work for?  Those factors are just as much a part of the mechanism that keeps these things "secret" as them being deliberately kept secret, if not more so. In China, businesses have never *stopped* consulting a feng shui expert.  That doesn't mean everyone *practices* feng shui any more than taking communion makes every Catholic a priest.  Is the occult more accepted in the West today?  Sure.

But we don't have to keep secrets.  The secrets keep themselves.

The only real secrets aren't secrets at all, because they can be neither withheld nor doled out by any human. They are, and have always been, spirit-taught. The first shaman knew this, and so does anyone else with *actual* spiritual attainment.  Knowledge, power, peace and all the rest don't come from a book, or a seminar, or a teacher, or a church, or a secret society or mystery cult.  Anything else purported to be a "secret" is nothing more than culturally developed window dressing.  A good teacher can give you methods to get to the door leading to the experience.  A great teacher then gets out of your way so you can walk through the door.

But will you walk through it?  And once through it, will you stay on the path?  Or will you keep yourself from the secret?...

Advice and Counseling

The other day I was having a conversation with my wife about giving advice to friends, and the bewilderment, exasperation and even sometimes anger that can arise within us when our friend refuses to follow the advice we give. Then also today another friend expressed a similar bewilderment, so I thought that possibly others might benefit from what I told them. Take from this what you may.

I used to get upset when I'd give advice about what I say I would do (assuming when actually faced with that exact same situation that I would actually do that) and people didn't follow it.

Then I realized two things. First, it isn't about me. It's about them. A person can only ever do what they are capable of at the very moment of every decision they are faced with, and they will only ever choose the option that they are capable of choosing given the person they are at that very moment. A person will never "choose" otherwise because events in their lives have shaped them into the person that makes the choice they make, and no other. Speaking the truth as you see it isn't enough. You must also speak it without judgement, and without attachment to the outcome. To do otherwise creates suffering.

The second thing I realized was that, as much as I think I might understand another's life, situation and motivations, I really don't, because I didn't have their experiences exactly the way they did, and that furthermore, believing that I knew better was an illusion at best.

Now, when someone tells me about their problem, I listen first, and sometimes that is really all a person wants, to be heard not "fixed".

Then if I have an idea of how they might better their situation I will ask if they need advice first before giving it. Then, even if they say yes, I always assume that they might not have the will or desire to follow that advice because they feel they know their situation and capabilities better than I do...because they are correct. To do otherwise would mean that when someone else tells me to do something I feel will not work, that I should still do it and ignore my own warning bells.

The best advice I was ever given when dealing with *any* situation I got from a shamanic seminar I attended once, and can be summed up as follows:

1. Be present in the moment. Distress over the past and worry about the future do nothing but cripple our ability to live an authentic life of fullness and wholeness.

2. Know yourself. Your own experiences, prejudices and emotions play a larger role in how you relate to people and situations than you may realize.

3. Speak your truth without blame, judgement or criticism. Nothing destroys communication faster than a willful disregard for another's "placement".  Everyone fights their own battles.

4. Have no attachment to the outcome. Be open to the possibilities. Doing so will avoid worry over the future, as well as avoid suffering caused by too great a desire for specific outcomes.

Pendulum Energy Work

I study the phenomenon variously known as ley lines, faerie trods, or dragon line/paths/roads.  Though these can be described by different cultures in different ways, I will describe it thus:

Spiritual energy runs, swirls, and pools throughout the universe, throughout the world, and through and in all life in the Universe.  The Chinese might call this Qi or Ch'i.  The Japanese call it Ki, the Hawaiians would call it Mana.  It is the Prana of Hinduism and Buddhism.  The Anglo-Saxons called it Maegen, as in "might and main", i.e. physical and spiritual strengths. The Romans would have known it as numen, and the Greeks, Pneuma. Some traditions of Druidry call it Nwyfre.

This energy tends to run in veins across the earth, pooling in various "places of power", and it does the same thing in the human body, whence come the concepts of chakras, pressure points and acupuncture, etc.

To wit, here are some ideas for exercises one can do with a pendulum, a weight of natural material suspended on a thread or chain of natural material:

Pendulum exercises

SETTING UP YOUR PENDULUM:

• make it swing on purpose: clockwise, stop, counterclockwise, stop, back and forth, stop, left and right, stop
• show me neutral, show me yes, show me no, show me confusion/ wrong question
• always only ask yes/no questions

EXERCISES WITH AN ASSISTANT:

Have a friend set these experiments up so that you don't know ahead of time which is which, then use the pendulum, asking yes/no questions to determine which is which.

• 2 glasses of water, tap and bottled
• 3 glasses of water: plain, salted, sugared, find each mineral
• 2 coins, same date and denomination
• 2 coins same date, different denomination or vice versa
• 3 coins, 2 same and 1 different
• row of cards, find the red one, etc
• row of court cards, find the king etc
• 3 cups, find the coin
• 3 cups; 3 coins, find each coin
• friend thinks of object in house or yard, find out what it is
• friend hides an object in house, etc
• use maps to find things

USE PENDULUM TO DETERMINE DATE/TIME:

• use calendar and clock to find date something happened/ will happen by pointing to each date and hour.

ASKING A SPIRIT QUESTIONS:

• draw 170 degree fan charts with choices about a subject, such as the alphabet to ask spirits questions like a talking board, or two or more choices. A chart of 180 degrees or more could cause confusion about which letter the pendulum was swinging towards.

• hold pendulum over chakras to determine if out of balance/blocked. An clear chakra should cause the pendulum to circle clockwise, or sometimes counterclockwise, while a blocked or limited chakra usually causes the pendulum to swing in a straight line or to hold still.

FOR DOWSING:

• finding water, ley lines, oil, metals, lost objects, people, etc
~ divide an area into grids and pointing to each grid on a map, rule out each grid until you find the object
~ use triangulation to pinpoint
~ turn in direction of circular swings to face correct direction to find something
~ for depth start by standing over the spot; walk away until the pendulum swings (or stops swinging). The number of feet you've walked away from the spot is how many feet down the object is

• predict weather (National Weather Service is supposedly only 30% accurate)

• 4 elements:
Deosil - air, sanguine
widdershins - water, phlegmatic
horizontal - earth, melancholic
vertical - fire, choleric

•4 humors also, for diagnosis of physical, emotional, mental and spiritual ailments

The Purpose of Myth

Myths are truth spoken of by allegory, metaphor, and symbolism. Myths are illustrations of spiritual principles. They are not the principles themselves. They were created by those who had an insight to demonstrate those principles which such people already had some understanding of, not to become dogma themselves. 

I prefer to take the tack that what is, is. I enjoy reading the myths and folklore, but if they do not sync with my actual spiritual experiences well then, I am going to take my own personal experiences over anything else, because the sun is right there and it's the sun, and the ground is right here beneath my feet and it is what is.

I think the Gaelic and Brythonic myths of my ancestors as we have them are valuable, but I would never trust them enough to believe that they are automatically more correct than my own personal experiences, especially considering that they were still written down by Christian monks, and although the Bible is at least 1700 years old, I think it is pretty much wrong on most things of consequence to me, so appeals to written authority don't really hold as much weight with me.

I would rather study the myths of my ancestors, but translate into modern English words every thing or being my experience by using modern English to create epithets, etc. If I feel that my experience of a being coincides with the mythological descriptions of particular deities, etc. then great.

I think if more people would actually translate the names of the gods as much as possible into modern English so that we can really understand what the epithet meant, and use that modern English phrase instead of the deity's "name", then we might come to a better understanding of what our ancestors thought about them, because they were not for the most part using foreign language to describe their deities. They were using the everyday language that they intimately understood and were raised with. I certainly agree with the value of studying Celtic languages, I study Finnish, Norwegian, Old Norse, Old English, Welsh and Scottish Gaelic myself and have even studied at Sabhal Mor Ostaig, but we should never forget that it was our ancestors' actual experience with their own present that we are reading about. As a language teacher I can tell you it certainly can get in the way, especially a foreign and romanticized one.

Some may wonder what happens when one's personal experience is at great odds with a detail of the myths, and I suppose the answer would be complex and would depend on the specific discrepancy and it's degree, whether or not the discrepancy were covered by another related people to show a possible other interpretation that existed but didn't get attested, whether we know enough about that topic that there is absolutely no debate at all among scholars of the subject for there to be a "correct" interpretation or answer, etc.  I think though, that the fact that learned scholars can't agree on some things means in and of itself that no one view can be authoritative regarding those topics, and in a way would make every belief a kind of personally favored myth-inspired UPG. 

The Celtic and Germanic tribes are but two groups of many tribes descended from whom scholars typically name the Indo-Europeans and that their language, which all European languages but four descend from, is called by them Proto-Indo-European, and that many deity names are co-arisen from common PIE root names. I fully agree that different peoples came to understand the gods in their own unique ways, but no matter how long the centuries and the miles and the language slang innovations that turned into dialects and then separate languages, the sun each generation looked upon was the same, and they only ever taught their children a combination of what their parents taught them coupled with their own experience.

I also try to think about the individual and small community life experiences back then. I don't think most people's considerations of the gods extended beyond their experienced world.

If they had a concept of a deity that was everywhere and represented a certain set of powers, experiences, or what-have-you's, and they moved to a new area already populated, did that god come with them? Are they more intuitive than the indigenous population to detect a deity that was already there that the indigenous inhabitants didn't notice? Would they have said "oh, you call her that? Well, we call him this"? 

If they moved to an area where there used to be a people who worshipped a certain deity, but those people were long gone without a trace, would that deity cease to exist because the new people worshipped their version or whatever instead? Would they intuit that god there as different even though each culture considered their own deity present everywhere they were and used different names?

I'm one who believes there are many gods, but only so many, not a soft polytheist who believes that all gods are one god, and not a hard polytheist who believes that every mention of every single god name*has* to represent a completely separate being. You might say that I am an "al dente" polytheist, just soft enough, just hard enough, for my taste anyway. I think all things have their individual spirit, but that the gods are omnipresent in all things in the way that they are, that there is no part of anything that is not "of the gods".

I'm not 100% pure hard polytheist because then I'd have internal conflict trying to decide if Odin only created the first Germanic people while Zeus and Prometheus made the first Greeks. That's why I say that my experience weighs just as heavily for me as the myths, because for me the gods are so much more vast than any people in any time could have defined completely. The All Father is the All Father, not the Some Father.

If the creation myths can be assumed to be metaphorical without specifically telling us so, then how is it so easy to say that all people aren't talking about the same great powers as manifested through their own story telling and understanding?  Why would we feel free to take the myths as definitively saying that all the father gods of all the pantheons are different beings, but then be wary of taking the rest too literally?  In my opinion, it is simply better to take it all as metaphor, speaking a truth symbolically, rather than literally.

I am the same person, acting always from my same core, and yet my wife and my mother know me differently by the very nature of my interaction with them and their perception of my actions. If they didn't know each other, and described me to each other in the checkout line, would they possibly think they were talking about different people who happened to have *some* commonalities?

Myths are the lived experiences of a spiritual reality, not an objective observation of a spiritually lifeless universe. 

Myths may be the bricks and tiles comprising the walls and roof, the shape of which define a way or culture, but the principles that inform those myths are the same ground and foundation for everyone, and from which everything is born equally. 

Where Have All The Pagans Gone?


Where have all the actual pagans gone? Not the universalists. Not the its-all-the-same-mountain-ists, but the Actual Pagans™?

Where are the dirt worshipping heathens?
Who lights the bonfires anymore? 
Who beats the drum by moonlight? 
Who spills ale or mead or wine for the ancestors and the spirits of the trees? 
Who really crosses the hedge, not just claims it for ego and praise? 
Who slips inside the world through the roots deep underground? 
Who whistles up the wind anymore? 
Who rides the brooms and pitchforks among the clouds and the stars to the Meadow? 
Who takes up the runes, roaring?
Who dances the ring-dances and guises the People of Fur and Feather? 
Where are the shapeshifters? 
Who still has a fire in their head? 

Anyone? Anyone???

Weather Work




I live on the Mississippi Gulf Coast. It is a great place to live, for the most part. An hour from New Orleans, a little more than that to Mobile. There is a quaint charm to my small town, and the French colonial culture still lingers, lending a rich history. The weather is pretty darn great, too. We have long summers to enjoy our beaches, ample rainfall without usually getting drowned out, and mild short winters. There are no blizzards. There are no mudslides. There are no earthquakes, volcanoes or tsunamis. Tornados typically do not form here in the 3 mile wide strip of land south of Interstate 10. But we do have hurricanes.

Back in 2005, we had the mother of all hurricanes come through. Katrina. That name will forever haunt an entire generation of coastians. You see, New Orleans may have gotten the coverage because their levies broke an hour after the storm had passed, but they were 40 miles from the eye of the storm, on its weaker west side, while my town was 20 miles from the eye on the stronger east side of the storm. So I know a thing or two about what weather is capable of doing.

One aspect of any "magical" path that is mentioned often is the ability to influence the weather. From the witches of Europe, to the shamans of Siberia and the medicine men of Native America, the ability to influence the weather for good or ill has been a common feature of sorcerers, magicians and shamans the world over.

We don't live in a vacuum. Everything we do, everything, has consequences, both good and bad, and this applies to our physical actions (and inactions) just as much as our "magical" ones. Our responsibility when working with the weather comes foremost in trying our best to determine what effect we will have on not only our community but also adjacent communities and indeed, the entire world.

With this in mind, one must think long and hard about performing weather work, and only doing so in situations of true need. But the responsibility does not end there.

While it should go without saying that to push a storm away from you and yours is unethical because it will mean pushing it towards others, I'd like to tell you about another unethical practice. I remember many years ago, when another hurricane threatened our shores, that one group of practitioners, and I don't remember if they were wiccans or druids or what they called themselves, decided for all the community that they felt *we* could handle the storm better than the Florida community to which the storm was apparently headed, so what did they do? They performed a rite to draw the storm to us! Thankfully, most practitioners were working to weaken the storm, so when it did arrive on our beaches it was not so strong.

Hurricanes are needed. They provide a release for the energies building up in the world's oceans. Without this release, things could get much worse. Hurricanes also bring much needed rain to land and they also help to cool the blistering summer in many places. These things are needed.

We should not try to avert weather conditions, in my opinion, unless lives are at stake, and I don't just mean human lives. We might save a human, and in the process kill thousands of marine and land plants and animals. If you think that won't create a debt for you, my personal belief is that you are sorely mistaken.

This past weekend we had another small storm come through, tropical storm Karen. I saw the usual rhyming spell passed around asking for the storm to be weakened, but I have recently been working more animistically on purpose, so I thought I'd take another approach.

The fox is an amazing animal, and it has much to teach one who would be open to receive its wisdom. Even studying the physical habits of animals will yield much wisdom that can be applied to one's daily life, as well as to one's spiritual practice. One thing the fox is known for is creating caches of food to save for later. Their stomachs are not very large compared to the rest of their body, so they kill or scavenge food and hide it, to return to it later when they have less luck.

I decided to utilize this to my advantage and at the same time, try to weaken the storm. After speaking to the spirit of the storm and asking to have some of its energy, I asked fox to nip away bits of the storm's energy and save it for later, to cache the bits away safely so that we could have use of them later. After the storm I did a divination to see how many caches of power she had acquired, and how powerful they were, and I am very pleased with the results.

You will never hear me being so pompous as to say that I am the reason the storm weakened before it came ashore, but I do feel that I contributed in some small part to make it safer for everyone, while also allowing the storm to take its course and expend its energy, while not taking too much.

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

How Speaks The Wind?

Sailing the Adriatic in a replica of 18th century boat - Picture ...


How speaks the wind, what doth it bring?
A beached fish gasp, in terror spent?
Its mind a ball of tangled string,
For fear and dread shall ne’er relent.

Or speaks it thus; an ancient knowing?
Like a stone upon a field of war,
Where men died, grain they now are sowing,
And banshee’s cry is heard no more.

Perhaps it whispers like a lover
To calm the soul with passion’s fire
Upon the skin, caress of clover
Aching dance of heart’s desire

For me, the wind a strange friend be
And I, too, stranger become
Full sails, slipping ‘pon the sea
Forever bound for home…

~Christopher Crittenden